Does THE LOOK Matter Much in Her/His (s) First Appearance?

What’s not to judge a book by its cover? Isn’t everything out there all about the packaging?

Would men fall for the dainty prissy kinda girl, who’s hair is forever neatly tied in a ponytail with a little twirl at the roots? Dressed in a Little Bo Beep kinda manner. Or would he prefer the Lara Croft sexy bombshell in shorts that are short enough to pass off as denim panties? Hair with a just wake up look? Then the female – let me be practical – doesn’t matter if he looks like Bugs Bunny as long as he’s got the cash – that’s not being materialistic but realistic.

If you read chick flick books and watch those kinda fuss free fictional movies, both male and female always look good – they compliment each other don’t they. But in reality – how many couples are seen out there who are perfectly matched?

As for me – yes I do care about the looks – that secured looking face look and non ah pek kind – for those who are not entirely Asian readers, Ah Pek according to the Singlish Dictionary – he is referred to a man who is an old fashion uncle ( my summarized meaning ). Ok so I want a Richard Gere in bermudas with a white t-shirt. I know that’s a tough one for The Universe to grant me with.

BUT during my Healing Session – he does resemble a little of A Richard Gere…HAHA!!

This blog somehow was inspired by my 2 schoolmates, 1 I have known for about 27 years now and the other for 21 years. We came about having the conversation about Plastic Surgery as my cousin altered her natural beauty and now looks like those Korean Drama girls – we Asians (most of us actually ) have the basic features of single eyelids and a flat nose. So when vanity rules – poor babies had their nose pinched to raise the *bridge* – so I suppose plastic surgery for babies when they were born are forbidden. Seriously – its not working out – I don’t have a flat nose neither a high bridge. but I have embraced my blessed looks of looking somewhat Pan Asian in ways – laugh all you want but in every single Asian country – I am known as the nationality and never Chinese ( hence my Asian Cindy ). Back to the story – we said damn the husband better know how she used to look otherwise when the baby comes out and doesn’t look that porcelained ( perfect sharp features and breakable too ) – he better not divorce her!!

Did you read about this?

http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2012/10/29/chinese-man-divorces-ugly-wife_n_2037141.html

Took a Sabbatical for 2 months

Its been about 2 months since I last blogged. Things haven’t been going well as I thought it would in my career and of course leading to finding my Prince ( now KING ) Charming. 

Its been great having to contribute my time at the temple since my Dharma father was back early June, cooked an Indian feast for both dinner and breakfast. Did all my spiritual healing and realized to WHY AM I NOT having a long line of dates…

Turning heads occasionally BUT no man dares to even approach me…I wonder if my imaginary eye is growing somewhere on my forehead that I am not aware of it. So I was told that I was lack of the female pheromones – I need that to enhance and speed up the process of my KING CHARMING appearing before me.

Being back in Kuala Lumpur was certainly a warmer feeling – as it is where I call it my home. However I felt something was missing in my life…my freedom was left behind in Phnom Penh. Focusing and emanating my intentions of going back – I felt the need to communicate more with The Universe. That’s why during my last healing meditation I had such clear visions of what I wanted and know I will be blessed with a good honest job and my wedding gown will be just the way I saw it…its Gold and Champagne…and my train will be a romantically long one, the Gold Flowers are appliqués to my Champagne based dress – it would out shine Kate Middleton’s one because I am designing it. 

Great – its tad too early for me to hit the sack so dreaming this would be about 2 hours from now. Hey there’s no harm for looney me to hallucinate my perfect life?

I have placed the chopping board back, washed the knives and fine tune tonight’s dining…what more can this Asian Cindy not do? Water the plants in my crazy garden of flowers.